We all have our preferences to styles and types of clothing we like. Sure it’s sometimes mostly based on ideas created behind the point or social influences, other times it’s based on what is practical. For me I prefer wearing simple plain clothing.
Back when I was a teenager it was a different story. I was
into whatever was cool based on social influences. I was a surfer/rockstar
wannabe so that is the clothing I wore. Had to be branded clothing. But as you know –
things changes when you grow up and now clothing is simply soothing to cover my
birthday suit.
Throughout the years there was one thing that did not change
and something I brought with me since childhood – I will never wear a Vest.
With working around the farm your clothing does not last
very long so every now and then I need new shirts. So off I went with my
girlfriend and at the store she places a vest in my hands. I immediately and
firmly announced my displeasure and told her I will not wear this. We walked og
there with a few new shirts and the Vest.
I did not even realize at that point what my issue is with a
vest until I looked at it. A memory came
up from when I was very young I found a box of clothes and in there was a vest,
I put it on and went about my day. My parents saw me with this vest and they
were all like “ wow, look at those muscles” and “ look at how strong you are”.
I got fairly irritated with this and decided there I really don’t like vests.
What I did was linked wearing vests to people who want to
look strong and show of their muscles. Like an Ego thing. And from There I avoided
wearing Vests.
It was only recently at the behest of my partner that I started
wearing Vests again ad I got to say – when it comes to a very hot day a vest is
much better to wear that a T-Shirt ( What?! Really?!). So all those years I was sweating on hot days
with my T-Shirt I could have worn a nice vest, but I created this idea and
belief about the Vest and lived with that idea for many years.
So what beliefs and ideas are you living with currently? It’s
hard to determine, because you already firmly believe it is real. Only way to
find out if it’s real or not is to tests it out for yourself .
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