Self Worth and Self Development

 

 

I have looked at the point of self-worth and self-value before and now some new points have opened up: Other dimensions of self-worth and self-value (or the lack thereof), as well as the consequences.

I have been working with the physical for a few years before I got Graves disease. I have developed my skills and got myself to a point where I was effective within a particular physical activity/process. What I did not develop effectively during those years was my "inner" skills - my beingness, as who I am in/as my Living. Within this there is a Miss-alignment - developing one part and ignoring the other (missing the equal and one alignment of me in my within and without, my who I am within and how I live without). What I found interesting is that I have constant lower back pain and the physical reason is that my body is skew – miss-aligned. My right side is lower than my left. I am busy with some exercises to correct this.

My lack of self-worth played a role in this - where I told myself that I don't matter and what matters is doing tasks and keeping myself busy with it; all the while keeping myself from developing myself. If I look at it now it is also a point of "self-sacrifice" - where I dedicate my life helping out and helping others, but ignoring myself in the process, because I saw myself as not being important. I have lived my life like this believing that I am doing "good" and that It makes me a "good" person, but all I have done is ignore myself and my life.

It is time to realign myself and realize that I cannot keep on ignoring myself. It is important to develop myself so that I can be an effective living being. Develop self-skills and become directive and effective within it just like I did with working in the physical.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to create the  belief and idea that I do not matter

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to within this belief go into a "self-sacrifice" of only helping out and helping others and ignoring myself, not realizing that I cannot in fact assist/support/help others if I have not in fact done this for myself, within myself and so my own life

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to in my lack of self-worth and self-value to not develop myself and improve myself to become effective, because I believed that Other people are more important that I am

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to live with this miss-alignment and believe that I am a good person by only helping out other people - not realizing that This was a belief and perception. Holding onto a belief of ‘I am a “good person”’ as a Personality I then fueled/validated, instead of actually finding out who I am

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize that I limited myself by ignoring myself and only helping others - because If I do not change myself I stay the same instead of developing myself to become more and more effective.

I forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize that I cannot support another effectively if I do not support myself first

I commit myself to stop the belief and idea that I do not matter - instead I realize the importance of myself and developing myself to become effective, because the more effective I am the better I can assist and support others

I commit myself to stop the "self-sacrifice" character and start paying attention to myself and my self-development and realize that before I can truly assist and support another I must be able to assist and support myself.

I commit myself to stop limiting myself and disabling myself by not assisting and supporting myself within self-development - instead I dedicate myself to become effective within myself

Holocaust Victims - Caused By Law Of Attraction?

 

This is a response to Abraham hicks - The Missing piece

In this video a guy is asking questions about the world and the suffering where Abraham hicks answers. She basically is a believer in the Law of attraction where all humans actually attract their own suffering.

What really alarmed me was when the guy asked about the Holocaust  where millions were killed and went through unimaginable suffering in which Abraham hicks generally avoided the question. She said that if each inner vibration is happy and joyful you will attract it and if you are miserable and paying attention to the suffering in this world then you will attract misery.

So what Abraham hicks is saying that the Jew Holocaust victims in a sense chose to be placed in gas chambers and the suffering they went through, because their inner experience didn't vibrate goodness and joy.

In this then what Abraham hicks is basically saying is that if a 5 year old girl gets kidnapped and raped its because she attracted it? Really? Also she said that you should not feel the pain others are feeling, because they are actually ok - they are coping with starving, raping, genocide so your pain is actually worse than theirs. Abraham hicks have no idea what it feels like being forced to kill your own mother and then forced to join in the children army where its kill or get killed. People like to believe that you should not feel pain for others and that they do not really feel so much pain, because it gives people an excuse not to actually do something about it. Its VERY easy to ignore something. All very CONvenient for the LOA people.

Its like a fire - there is a fire busy burning down your room - its a bad fire - so you choose to ignore it. The fire will not stop just because your not thinking about it, its going to burn down your house. Just like suffering in this world - if you keep on ignoring it it will simply continue!!!

The guy in answering the questions was right to question and had very practical valid points. Unfortunately Abraham hicks is very clever in avoiding and side stepping such questions. The Guy wanted answers to this world - he saw that LOA is not a solution to this world.

This is how LOA it works - always look at the behavior of what you are doing to see if it has an impact and always cross reference with the world:

You think happy thoughts, ignore bad ones and suffering - basically ignore the world. Make sure you feel happy so that you vibrate happiness and joy within yourself. Then your world becomes a happy place. YOUR world becomes a happy place. YOUR WOLRD ALONE!

Obviously if you ignore and suppress the real world everything will seem fine. The proof that LOA is not a world solution is right there on the news. The problems in the world are escalating, because nothing is being done. Its gets ignored by most people who believe they can change the world by feeling good. It does nothing. Look around you.

The world is in shit, because of those who were her before us. Because of us here now accepting the choices made by those who had the power to create the world system as it exist today. That we need money to survive - that a piece of paper, a number in a system has power over life and death. Without money you die - with money you live.

This is unacceptable - you will only change your perspective of YOUR own bubble you call your world with LOA, but The problems in this world sill still exist. You don't end starvation with feeling good - you end it with food.

Stop doing nothing and make permanent solutions to the world and all its suffering and abuse a reality - practical REAL solutions!!! Go to the Equal MONOEY website and join in on the creation of a new world like it should be. Be part of the change and give your ideas on solutions to the worlds problems and share it others.

Journey to Life Day 32 - Why Being Positive Is not a Solution

 

I Forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that thinking positive will make the world a better place - not realising that only thinking positive I ignore all the ''negative'' and in that ignoring i actually make the world worse

I Forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to ignore all the things I do not like and deem bad and to believe that it would actually make this world a better place

I Forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to believe that positive thinking will attract only the positive and ward of the negative - because it makes my life easier and makes me feel good - not realizing that I am ignoring reality and the rest of world

I Forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to see that positive thinking is not a solution - that I am creating an illusionary world within myself that only affects me.

I Forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to become blinded by positive thinking that i do not even see the evidence and proof that positive thinking is not a solution  - that I ignore the worsening condition of the world that is proof in it self that positive thinking is not making the world a better place

I Forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize that if I only look at the good and the positive then the world will seems like a good place - not realizing that what i am doing is ignoring all the abuse and suffer and in that do nothing to prevent the abuse and suffering - in effect allowing it to continue and thus making the world worse.

I Forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear the abuse and suffering in the world and to fear that it will effect me and out of fear to shun and ignore it in an attempt to get away from it till i believe that it doesn't exist anymore - and then to claim i am making the world a better place

I Forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize that I cannot think away the suffering of this world - because thinking is my head and not real as the physical earth or as real as the suffering and abuse in this world.

I Forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to realize that the only way to make this world a better place is realize that the problem lies within me - that we as humans created this world as it is today and that I accepted and allowed this system by my participation in it and not doing anything to change it. And so to change the world I have to change myself

I Forgive myself that I have not accepted and allowed myself to put in the effort to change myself - my actions and who I am so that I can be an effective self directed human that do what is best for all - to live as an example to others and direct others to do the same.

I commit myself to see that positive thinking actually makes this world much worse by not giving in attention and allowing it to continue

I commit myself to face the bad and the ugly of this world that we have created and not to fear it - but to  dedicate my life to make sure that all suffering and abuse ends - to make sure that my children and their children will wake up in a world free from the suffering  that so many have to endure daily

I commit myself to then stop positive thinking and to instead practically change myself so that i can be effective and self directed to actually make a difference in this world instead of being stuck in a bubble in my head.

I commit myself to promote and create a new world system where every being will have an actual chance to a life worth living