Showing posts with label judging. Show all posts
Showing posts with label judging. Show all posts

Wednesday, 16 May 2012

Journey to life day 12 – Judging people


I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge people

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to compare myself to others and to see myself as better than others

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that I am better than others

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that if I were other peoples position I would do better or would have done things differently 

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge others so that I feel better about myself

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to want to feel better at others expense – not realising that in the need to feel better means that there is an underlining problem that requires direction

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to first find fault in others before I look inward at the real issue

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not want to look inward at the real issue – but first want to judge others 

I commit myself to stop judging people

I commit myself to look at myself first and see why I want to judge someone

I commit myself to stop seeing myself as superior to others

Monday, 30 April 2012

Journey to life Day 5 – Judging the Ignorant


On a Facebook picture that is making its rounds there is a boy holding a fox. The story is that he saw people kicking the fox and abusing it so he ran in and took the fox away from the men. The thing that pissed me off was the comments on this story.  people saying things like ‘’ God sent that boy to save the fox’’ or ‘’God bless him’’.
It pissed me off because if god sent that boy – he also put that fox in that position. It’s so ridiculous how delusion some people can be.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to react to another’s words

 I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that another can make me angry. not realising that I am the one creating the anger

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to become obsessed with others peoples delusions and to judge them for it

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself not to realize that everybody is who they are according to who their parents where, the environment, society and education – therefor I cannot judge a person because everyone is in essence innocent.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to see myself as the better person by judging them 

I commit myself to stop judging people for who they are and what they do, instead I do all I can to spread common sense

I commit myself to stop reacting to other peoples words ideas and believes and instead breathe

I commit myself to Stop blaming others for my reactions. I see that I am responsible for my reactions.