Dealing With Failure:

 

 

Perfection – There is one saying that i always thought was really cool ‘’everybody makes mistakes’’. That made me feel good about myself, because if i make a mistake then it is ok – everybody else does as well.

That good feeling was short lived because as i grew up  i realized that even though everybody makes mistakes, there are consequences for those mistakes. But that's another story.

The point is that in this process of self  and peeling of the layers of self and facing various aspects of yourself – you make allot of mistakes.

I have struggled with points and like all Destonians have fallen and faced failure. I was always hard on myself and still am when i cannot break though or transcend a particular point within myself. And being hard on myself i have actually made standing up again allot more difficult.

When making a miss take – instead of learning from it i tend to hold on to the idea and feeling that i am a failure. And when i struggle with a point i bring back all of my previous mistakes and failures and pile it up with the next one.

This where backchat is a bitch – I eventually go through all my failures and mistakes over and over – refusing to see what i have accomplished so far – and then eventually all that remains is the failure.

And then i believe that to be true – from there everything else starts with the preconceived idea that i will fail. And then that is exactly what happens  - I have created it. And it started with a thought.

EveryBody makes mistakes – this doesn't mean that perfection is not possible – simply not to be hard on yourself when you make a mistake, but to move on.You are not defined by your failures – but your ability to stand up from it.  Learn from it and move on.

Join us the quest of self perfection and dealing with failure   - Desteni I process.

Desteniproductions Terminated–What Now?

 

YouTube Decided today to Terminate DESTENIPRODUCTIONS,  BERNARDPOOLMAN, DESTENIEXPOSED and DESTENIMONEY and DESTENIPRODDEMONS due to alleged violations – These channels have in no way violated any terms of use regarding the terms.

They were all taken down pretty much at the same time. The message of equality and real practical solutions is what was being presented and that is what is being silenced. Up to 3000 supportive videos!

YouTube is deceptive – they will keep videos like porn but terminate those that stand for life.

BUT – those are only 5 channels. And to those haters who still don't get it – We are many – Desteni is a  GROUP of individuals who are working towards a solution for this life. And as a growing group of people we will not stop.

Yes it started with Desteni – a principle – Desteniproductions. But now those who can see and hear the message and who are busy incorporating the principle of life in their daily lives  as the Destonians we have become will not stop.

I cant stop – I see this world is in desperate need for change and im not the only one. Its common sense that cannot be denied.

So if anything this will only strengthen our resolve.

Desteni I process

 

Introduction Video for the Desteni I Process -  Desteni I Process

Road Rage Kills – How Not to Become Possessed

A Taxi Driver was shot and killed by a security guard in a road rage incident.

The taxi driver cut off a security van, the driver of the van then stopped and went to the taxi drivers window and he took out his pistol and then shot the driver dead as well as shooting the passenger.

Being driven by emotion kills. How are you being directed? By yourself or by emotions?

What would you do when you become so angry and full of rage where you become totally possessed by rage and direct that towards somebody?

And as long as you are being directed by emotions and feelings this can happen to you, at any time. People are like walking time bombs waiting to snap, explode. And if you are in the wrong place at the wrong time you will be a victim like many others.

What we say at Desteni is to become completely self directed – where I make the decisions in my life and direct what I feel. That i am responsible for what I feel therefor i must direct myself effectively to make sure that I dont cause harm or do something i might regret.

To become immune to possession. Join Desteni

How i Came to Desteni

How I came to Desteni

I was born and raised a christian. Prayed every night and went to Sunday church. It was at my last 2years of school that I basically stopped being a full Christian meaning I only said I was to avoid conflict with people and parents. I was selective in terms of what I believed the bible said.

I was my last year of school and by that time my sister sunette already met Bernard and Esteni. Throughout that year sunette helped out with driving me and my younger sister to school and I remember sunette sometimes talking about various points regarding what they are doing. I did find it kind of strange but it did not bother me because it made sense. I was pretty much apathetic towards everything back then.

I met Bernard the first time when I was out with a friend at the mall. I saw sunette eating at a restaurant with Bernard and them so went to say hello. Sunette commented that I am a musician and play drums and then Bernard suggested I should give LJ some drum lessons.

That is how I met LJ. So I came by 2 a week giving drum lessons. It was about 2 or 3 months after I finished school that I was forced to look at what I want to do for the rest of my life. I was still living with my parents and I needed to ‘’get a life’’ so to speak . Then one day Bernard asked me what direction I want to take in life. I had no idea. After giving him a blank stare as a response I then said I want to do something with music. Sunette already moved in and lived here with everybody so Bernard suggested I could move in and be a music tutor as well as a schooling tutor. I was eager to do so and moved in 3 days later.

That was 5 years ago. And that is where my world changed. I learned common sense. How I learned self responsibility – that I was ultimately responsible for my thoughts feelings and actions. That I cannot blame or judge another. I learned the meaning of true power - if I want to change I am the one that has to make that change. And I alone have the power to do so. I saw for the first time how truly fucked up existence is and how we are all trapped in a cleverly designed system to keep us from ever realizing what is really going on.

Heaven On Earth:

I used to say that line allot ‘’ as above so below’’. And if we look at how bad shit is on earth, imagine how bad shit is in heaven.

An Equal Money System would be heaven on earth. Heaven being freedom from fear and abuse. That is what our current world system is based on – fear and abuse. It functions on the suffering of many to benefit the few. And we created it – this wonderful world. Now we are entering the stage of consequence and we have trapped ourselves with our greed and desire.

Now Millions suffer everyday and we live in a world that is not worth saving. And that must end.

Money is the goal and with Equal Money System Life would be the goal. We will move from survival to actual living. I saw for the first time a way where an Equal World is actually possible. And rather complaining about this world I am standing up to become that change and investigating solutions to solve all this bullshit we have on earth. And the cool thing is that we as humanity can do this. We can create a heaven on earth for every being. Once and for all end all forms of abuse that exist in this world.

That is why I stand for a Equal Money system – because none are free until all are free.

001 Practical Living with Equal Money and the Social Changes to come
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l_1pmi90NPg

Principle and Personality
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q8NOZZBG7NM

Silently we Suffer
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LiunRgxTjYI

Self Forgiveness is the Key to Equality Sep 2
http://youtu.be/ralDonhPJBQ

Kurt Cobain 2 from the Afterlife: DESTENI

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyQx8-HwaVc

Adolf Hitler series:
http://www.desteni.co.za/videos/series/4/hfTJGAVMCDk

Waking Up and Becoming Aware of the Mind in Process Support
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NTa596uX ... ture=email

9. Desteni I Process is Leadership Training
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHlBa3gJv1U

1. BEGINNING of Creation
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3oXZE0eoqUw

Husband Hacked Wife to Death in a Fit of Rage

 

‘’He hacked her up, cutting “pieces of meat” out of her as if he was cutting up a carcass for cooking, angered family members of a Zimbabwean woman whose killer got an eight- year prison sentence for her murder, said on Tuesday. ‘’ – Daily news

The wife moved in with her sister, because the husband and wife had marital problems. On December 13 2009 he went to see her and saw another man leaving the house. He confronted his wife about the man. He told the court that his wife told him that men were paying her to have sex and that she was no longer his wife.

He then got angry, ran back his home and fetched a panga and then returned and started cutting her, she ran and he followed,  keeping on cutting her.

He fled the scene and tried three times to commit suicide before he handed himself over to police. He said he feels immense regret for what he did.

These horrific incidents are on the rise. Events were people become completely possessed  and kill. Most think that thoughts are harmless, but these events are thoughts made manifest and if you allow it within yourself there will be consequences. 

You have the thought -  the feeling /emotion – then the physical action.

At Desteni and Desteni I Process tools are available where one can learn how to stop this vicious cycle of abuse and how to ‘‘clean up the mess ‘’ that is inside ourselves so that we can be free from any from of possession.

I have been actively involved with Desteni for over 5 years and there are many many other standing and changing to become that which is best for all. This is were actual change is – and is done for oneself . Have a look.

I learned to Breath

 

We live in a world were waiting 20 minutes in a line or getting stuck in traffic for an hour seems to be a long time. We are used to getting results fast and when we don't we get impatient.

This creates the idea that when something takes long and results are not seen soon then something is wrong or not working. This applies to change.

In this process of changing myself I realized that it takes time. And you don't see results fast. We tend to want to give up if something takes longer than a week a month – not realizing what is involved with change. For me to change the personality called Fidelis when first started Desteni must cease to exist. That is the point of reprogramming yourself and writing self to freedom. A personality develops in the first 7 years of life – how long will it take to change that? That depends on me.

The point here is that it will take as long as it takes – Patience is really a virtue. Part of being a Destonian is that we are breathers – in the end that is all we have – Breath and dedication. Being patient depends on how well you breathe.

So I take this one breathe at a time until it is done. Join us at the Desteni I process to learn how to breathe while making serious money.